r/AskMen 8d ago Silver 1 Helpful 3 Wholesome 1

If you were dating a woman who wears a padded bra and saw her naked and noticed her breasts were smaller than they looked with clothes on, how would you feel?

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u/Existing_Ad_6649 8d ago Silver Gold Helpful Wholesome All-Seeing Upvote Take My Energy Ally Bravo Grande! Giggle I'll Drink to That Eureka! Updoot

With my hands.

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u/cakolin 8d ago Silver Helpful

This is the best comment

...hands down.

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u/VinamraT 8d ago Silver

More like hands on

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u/Taldius175 8d ago Helpful

Don't get too handsy, unless she likes that

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u/Eclectix 8d ago All-Seeing Upvote

How else do you expect to keep abreast of the situation?

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u/ShakenFungus 8d ago

Hand me in the first half, not gonna lie

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u/OversizedMicropenis 7d ago

Bewbs.

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u/ddh85 Male 7d ago

Now that's my cup of D.

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u/LifeSimulatorC137 8d ago

Hands up the best comment

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u/NotThatKindOfDrDr 8d ago

Someone’s dad is on Reddit again

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u/coldfright 8d ago

Sighs unzips pants

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u/sugarsurfer 8d ago Silver Gold Helpful Wholesome hehehehe This Masterpiece

I would be more worried about what she's going to think when I take off my padded pants....

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u/Alaska_Pipeliner Male 8d ago Wholesome Spit-take

Is that a cucumber wrapped in tin foil?

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u/Hairy-Drama 8d ago

Phew, I thought you were going to notice my tinfoil hat, what a relief

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u/nopeeker 8d ago

Lol I just found out about those from Popa chubby

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Just found out about Popa chubby from tinfoil

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u/Stumpjumper71 8d ago

It goes in the front, right?

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u/Huckleberry_Sin 8d ago edited 7d ago

Lmfaooooooo when they stop him at the airport and make him take it out

Edit: I understood this is a Spinal Tap reference

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u/Alaska_Pipeliner Male 8d ago

Watch Spinal Tap. Invented the mockumentary and rockumentary at the same time.

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u/nobodyevar 8d ago

Is that not what is being referenced here?

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u/ZzenGarden 8d ago

More like a gherkin

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u/endomeaway 8d ago

I love gherkins .. as long as they are still crunchy lol

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u/Marborinho 8d ago

Wtf hahahahahhaah

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u/SatisfactionNo7383 8d ago Wholesome Heartwarming

I’d think “I’m about to have sex”. That is all.

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u/mekosaurio 8d ago

This. "Its happening, and this time isn't in the screen of my laptop"

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u/GlutenRich 8d ago Silver Helpful

Just like the simulations

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u/woodchips24 8d ago

Watch those wrist rockets

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u/Electrical_Guess_194 8d ago

"We've all run the simulations - they're tough, but they ain't invincible, stay with the Master Chief. He'll know what to do" - Guy that knows what the ladies like

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u/Yz-Guy 8d ago

You sonuva bitch. You did. You actually did it.

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u/Firespray 8d ago

Ladies Like Armored Plating

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u/DannyD1982Demon 8d ago edited 7d ago Wholesome Bravo! Got the W

I’m married and with my wife 13 years and I still internally smile during sex and slap my 14 year old self high five lol. Like I wish I could go back in time tell him/me how great it’s gonna be!

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u/throwaway37865 8d ago

This is so wholesome

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u/thatHecklerOverThere 8d ago Silver

saw her naked and noticed her breasts were smaller than they looked with clothes on,

Bold of you to assume that any intelligent deduction is occurring after

noticed her breasts

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u/taws34 8d ago

Wait... There was more to the sentence after 'saw her naked'?

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u/kleenexhotdogs 8d ago

Post nut clarity?

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u/thatHecklerOverThere 8d ago I'm Deceased

If all was well, probably more focused on scheduling another appointment.

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u/BfreakingD 8d ago

This guy fucks.

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u/CrabSully 8d ago

Post nut clarity isn't really a thing with sex, I've found. Not like it is with porn.

With sex, things are still juice after cumming. With porn, you get dropped into the cold, sobering reality that is you sitting alone in front of a computer with a mess to clean up

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u/MrMonkey2 7d ago

I think post nut clarity isnt real with your S/O. But if you were cheating or single and you got with somebody you probably will regret (maybe a friends mum/co worker or somebody not very attractive) i think there would be a very real..... ahh why did I do that I couldve just jacked off.

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u/izza123 Male 8d ago

“I don’t think those breasts were as big as advertised in hindsight”

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u/TushyFiddler 8d ago

Pre-nut haziness

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u/cyan_reynolds 8d ago

I forgot everything you said before rectum!

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u/DirkWiggler42 8d ago Helpful

I would be thrilled to be looking at the woman I was dating naked.

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u/iamschur 8d ago

This is such a nice answer!

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u/lookTEETH 8d ago

such a nice guy

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u/three_furballs 7d ago

And kind of honored in a way. If she's worried about her size but still trusts me enough to be vulnerable there, that's pretty special.

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u/mechrobioticon Male 8d ago Silver Wholesome

happy about seeing some tiddies

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u/duaneap 8d ago

Seriously. I don’t think I’d even notice initially tbh.

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u/jeeeeez66 8d ago

Are they tiddies of titties?

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u/redditthrowaway1478 8d ago

Tiddy city

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u/chuddyman 8d ago

I never got to be the mayor of tiddy city.

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u/REHTONA_YRT 8d ago

Little City Slams boys

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u/waanotherbrickll 8d ago

You ever heard of bad titties?

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u/osageviper138 8d ago

Ha ha ha good point about tiddies

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u/nopeeker 8d ago

Itty bitty tiddy committee

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u/SH4DOWSTR1KE_ 8d ago

They might be itty bitty but them titties still bounce when you got a good Rhythm going...

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u/jakeshuffle 8d ago

Tidy city boys, ferda!

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u/korevis Male 8d ago

I designate breasts as tiddies if they're Dcup and above, otherwise they're titties.

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u/Candid-Albatross9879 8d ago

Haha I agree. Always said they're tiddies cuz there's 2 D's

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u/korevis Male 8d ago

That is indeed what the Ds stand for lol

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u/wcollins260 8d ago

Yup. I’d just be happy to see the boobies.

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u/GeneralBismark 8d ago Silver Helpful

If I notice quickly I mentally commend the producers of the bra because they have done such a good job with the product that it has distracted me from the fact there are naked boobs to appreciate.

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u/cannedrex2406 8d ago

They better have disco lights in that thing to turn my attention away.......

Oh wait whats that? There's naked boobs in front of me? Uhhhh what bra are we talking about again?

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u/32vromeo 8d ago

You lost me at “saw her naked”. Not much more matters after that lol

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u/blackdarrren 8d ago

I'd feel flattered and privileged...

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u/thestickofthekendo 8d ago Silver

Boobs are boobs

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u/brettles84 8d ago

Boobs are boobs are boobs

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u/gnomegrowgn 8d ago

Boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs

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u/semperanon 8d ago

Boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs

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u/deadhearth 7d ago

Boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs

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u/bl4mm0 7d ago

Boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs are boobs

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u/Stark556 8d ago

All boobs were created equally

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u/Doctor__Proctor Male 8d ago

Tell that to all the ladies that worry because one is bigger than the other

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u/iddothat 8d ago

It just means one was created more equally than the other.

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u/Doctor__Proctor Male 8d ago

So all boobs are equal, but some are more equal than others?

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u/travel_nerdiness 8d ago

Four boobs are okay, but two boobs are better

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u/SamuraiRafiki 8d ago Silver

Different sized packages, same great taste.

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u/kms6794 8d ago Silver

Greatful for having a naked woman in front of me....

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u/AHairyFishsticks 8d ago

This is the answer. If you are interested in someone and they are willing to take there clothes off and the love thang. It's all good, be happy.

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u/AHairyFishsticks 8d ago Helpful

Follow up. If someone takes their clothes off in front of you for the first time, it means they trust you. They trust you enough to be vulnerable and exposed in front of you. We are all insecure in some way. Just be warm, happy and assure them that they have made the right decision. If you do that things will work out. ...old guy signing out. Good luck.

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u/TheHadez Male 8d ago

Or they didn't see you behind the bushes yet.

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u/RealLADude 8d ago

The only answer.

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u/helterskeltermelter 8d ago

Aroused. I would feel aroused. You would feel aroused. We'd all feel aroused.

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u/efraim1820 8d ago

I’m a gay guy, and I’d feel aroused.

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u/EdoDave_Dave_Dave 7d ago

You must be an empath

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u/Uhhh_ayee 7d ago

I can’t with this comment hilarious :)

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u/Cr1tikalMoist 7d ago

What is this? Communistic arousal?

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u/iamschur 8d ago

As a woman I didn't expect guys to mainly answer that they don't care. I have small boobs as well, never wear a push up bra (normal one or just a bralette) and I like my boobs but sometimes I still feel bad for the guy because I think he'd like more more. But then again, no one ever complained and everyone said they like them and apparently guys really mean that. Just my random thoughts haha sorry

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u/Phantommy555 24/M 8d ago Helpful

He’s just happy to be with you, you are enough

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u/GarnetSteel Female 8d ago

you are enough ✨✨

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u/jaos0804 8d ago

Most women don't realize that us guys are just happy to be with you.

We don't want to think about what we're doing, we just go along with what's happening.

It'd be a better world if you all realized you're more than enough.

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u/willowtree764 7d ago

Thank you for this

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u/upsidedowntoker 8d ago

Honestly, same. I came I to this comment section expecting to be saddened but alas the general concencus seems to be any boob is a good boob and I'm here for it.

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u/RocketFrasier Male 7d ago

Really? I'm a dude and this was the exact response I expected, I feel like women worry a lot more about how they look than men think about how they look. You guys are awesome and your bodies are all amazing, no matter what you think :)

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u/upsidedowntoker 7d ago

This comment honesty made my day . I spent many years being overly concerned about what other people thought of my body and its really nice to see that most people will take me as i am .

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u/Kay1000RR 7d ago

The women I've had the biggest crushes on all had beaming personalities. Their smile and energy did more for me than any physical trait. If you keep being the best version of yourself, you'll attract the best people. That's been true for me as well.

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u/marijnjc88 7d ago

If someone won't take you for who you are, they don't deserve you and you sure as hell deserve someone better

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u/BallparkFranks7 8d ago

I’m a small boobs guy, and interestingly, my wife’s boobs are huge. I love my wife, and her boobs are just her boobs. She could be completely flat, have Dolly Parton titties, or anywhere in between and I don’t care, because they don’t define who she is.

Find a man that loves you for more than your boobs, and they’ll be happy with absolutely whatever is under that bra, whether it’s a push up or a granny bra.

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u/Prime_Kin 7d ago

And don't forget, boobs change over time. My wife is completely different now than she was before our three kids.

And they're spectacular. Always have been.

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u/jmcken15 8d ago

A lot of men even prefer small boobs. But the statement stands that all boobs are awesome.

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u/birdseye1114 7d ago

Theres no such thing as a bad boob, they’re just the breast.

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u/RFC793 7d ago

They’re the tits

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u/Moral_Anarchist Male, single by choice 7d ago

I prefer small boobs, but most of my serious girlfriends have had larger than normal boobs and not once have I ever given a shit. Not even a little.

Last girl I had this GIANT crush on was this very athletic girl and had the smallest breasts I had ever seen...barely there at all. And goddammit if I didn't look at them with absolute joy and hope that one day I would get to touch them.

Every single boob I've seen in person has been fucking awesome.

Boobs fucking rule. And I mean ALL boobs.

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u/TheOlderTheKinkier 8d ago

Same! I did not expect such an overwhelming response. I just went from c to an a cup so this is great for me to read right now. 😍

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u/TheHappyPittie 8d ago

Yeah i know there’s a lot of jokes about us men just being simpletons but honestly when boobs are involved we really, really are. Before i was married i dated women with boobs ranging from a to dd and never once did i see them and think hey these would be nicer if they’re bigger/smaller. Its pretty much just universally “omg boobs! Best day ever!”

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u/PrestigiousZucchini9 7d ago

This is the most accurate description possible.

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u/PLZ_PM_UR_CLEAVAGE 8d ago

This is absolutely true lol. all boobs are cool imo

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u/ReturnFromChaos 8d ago

Yeah, I've mostly been with petite women, who tend to have small boobs. Never bothered me, never even really thought about it.

I dated a girl who was super into working out, she was very lean, I mean she had a very, very flat chest, and she was still fucking hot.

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u/katkannabis 8d ago

Put my thoughts into words 100%. I feel you, girl.

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u/Green_Lantern_4vr 7d ago

Can you imagine ? Dating a girl then seeing her naked and being like eh never mind. Lol. Never going to happen.

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u/nowGeorge 8d ago

Naked tits, hell yeah!

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u/abotching 8d ago

I love naked tits

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u/berserkmanufacturer1 8d ago

I wouldn't be bothered. If it makes her feel more confident, fair enough. I'm not gonna stop dating a woman because she's a B cup, not a C cup.

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u/RedneckLiberace 8d ago

Or a D and not an F, E or G.

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u/Intelligent_You_3786 8d ago

In pain. Can you imagine how cumbersome zed sized breasts would be?

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u/weareoutoftylenol 8d ago

It would be breasts with a woman growing out the side of them.

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u/notnotaginger Female 8d ago

You would be surprised. They exist.

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u/Living_Ad9798 8d ago

Are bra sizes in hexadecimal?

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u/RedneckLiberace 8d ago

Who cares what the bra looks like? Show me the titties!

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u/serene_brutality 8d ago Wholesome

As per a former girlfriend: In a lot of cases they don’t really sell bras without padding, especially for the smaller cup sizes, or they’re hard to find and cute, whatever. But it’s not like one can do much about having smaller breasts outside of surgery. I personally don’t like the fake ones. So it is what it is. It’s not at all a big deal to me.

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u/SillyCat81 8d ago

Padded bras also hide nips. Not something some of us want sticking out in public.

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u/robotawata 8d ago

Came here to say this. I teach teens. Don’t need to have my pointy nipples poking around. It’s just how I’m shaped even with three shirts on and a thin bra, they’re visible. I guess I should just always wear a “blazer” but ugh. Here’s one thing to love about zoom (with camera pointed up high) - braless FTW

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u/PLZ_PM_UR_CLEAVAGE 8d ago

Makes sense

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u/seiana95 8d ago

For other girls lurking, I got some breastfeeding maternity bras that are kind of a sports bra style and I've never gone back to padded. No wire digging and no padding bunching up, etc. Could get something comfier and keep the cute stuff exclusive for dates.

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u/Jbales901 8d ago

Maternity bra FOR dates... easy access... just saying.

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u/NetSage 8d ago

I don't think most guys will care what kind of bra you wear. If you look good and are comfortable it's all a win. And once your shirt/pants are off hopefully the bra will be soon too.

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u/llilaq 8d ago

I wear padded bras solely to hide my nipples. Lace bras are cute and all but would attract way too much attention to what's under my shirt and would make me perpetually selfconscious. I think most women don't wear padded bras to increase size but to hide some more of 'the goods'.

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u/jcn143 8d ago

some women have to wear thick padded bras due to crazy protruding nips (me) — the nips like -40 even on a +30 kind of day. thin padding on bras doesn’t even work when wearing a tee… you just see the outline of the nips and it is very distracting

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u/absentbusiness Female 8d ago

Exactly. And they don't increase by any noticeable amount anyway.

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u/friskyfloaty 8d ago Wholesome

Boobs are boobs.
Be happy to see them, be glad she was comfortable enough to share.

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u/Cheap-Pound7001 8d ago

Sharing is caring. 😁

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u/Cheap-Pound7001 8d ago

Happened to me once.

I didn't care. Got right to sucking on them. 😂

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u/Aggressive-Celery-90 8d ago

This is really heartening to see that most of you just don’t care snd are happy to see sone boobs! 😃

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u/Apollo_T_Yorp 8d ago

Like it's 100% real though. I've never been disappointed at seeing boobs.

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u/Cheap-Pound7001 8d ago

Boobs are life.

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u/ChocoKoyokoyo 8d ago

Women are the only ones that care about size. Men just like boobs, no discrimination.

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u/Sukinonit 8d ago

I think I’m finally starting to believe this.. I’m pretty sure it’s true, lol

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u/Trashismysecondname 8d ago

Yep, I know guys who like bigger or smaller boobs, some who likes them apple shaped, or like pears.

Some prefer ass, some like tits, legs, thighs, feet, or whatever.

But we all agree, once she is naked, we don't care about that, we are happy to see a woman naked in front of us.

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u/solitarybikegallery 8d ago

Yeah, never had a "type." My first two girlfriends were short, tan, and bottom heavy with small boobs. I was super into it, and figured, "Well, that must be my type."

My third girlfriend was tall, slender, pale, and top-heavy. I was like, "Ohhhh, THIS is my type."

Then I dated another girl like the first two, and I was like, "Yeah, I think I'm just into women that fuck me."

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u/ClearAsNight Male 8d ago

Is she alive? Is it consensual? Yeah that's my type.

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u/TheLittleBalloon 7d ago

What more can you ask for?

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u/llilaq 8d ago

In all honesty, don't we all have 'preferences' or ideals that go out the window once we're faced with 'reality'/the person we have feelings for? Theorerically I love tall blue-eyed men (I'm tall myself) but my husband ended up being short and brown-eyed. He has other physical things I ended up enjoying (he has really sexy broad shoulders which I never had a thing for, prior to him) and I'm just happy to be with HIM.

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u/__01001000-01101001_ definitely also a human 8d ago

Honestly it’s like as soon as you’re with someone you actually care about you just see them through a filter that makes them 100% times more attractive. Hence why it’s not at all an exaggeration to say that your SO is the most beautiful person in the world to you even if objectively they’re probably not to anyone else. I have no idea how to answer when people ask “what’s your type?”. I just end up describing whoever I’m currently into, so you’ll get a different answer almost every time lol

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u/SeventhSin-King 8d ago

It's true. I've never met any dude do has talked about his girlfriend naked and thought her boobs looked smaller than when she was clothed. They talk about how good their partners look in some positions or a hot thing they said.

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u/MrRogersAE 8d ago

Not entirely true, I’d much rather see natural boobs of any size over fake ones, they just don’t move and feel the same. Fake boobs look better under a shirt IMO

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u/The_Matias 8d ago

THIS!

I don't care if they're big, small wide, narrow, dark, light, pointy or soft. But give me real ones. It's always noticeable when they are fake. Sometimes more, sometimes less, but always 'fake'.

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u/6_Pat 8d ago

And they don't have the same resonant frequency when doing the deed. But Hey, as long as their owner feels better...

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u/ZXCVBETA 8d ago

the simple pleasures in life i should say

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u/deadeyeotdo42 8d ago

Meh, I'm seeing tiddies

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u/PinkGhostPandemic 8d ago Silver

Hate to break it to you, but men and women do all kinds of things to enhance their desirable attributes, and hide the less desirable.

On the plus side, if you like looking at her with clothes on more, means she doesn’t have to put the effort into sleeping with you.

That’s why you get into relationships with personalities, not just looks.

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u/Cheap-Pound7001 8d ago To The Stars

This is words of wisdom.

Her looks attracted me...her personality keeps me.

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u/SilliestVillian 8d ago

This is serious wisdom. 100% agree

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u/sneaky_goats 8d ago

I had this exact situation happen 7 years ago. I went on a few dates with this girl who wore padded bras, and the first time I saw her without a bra I thought “tiddies!”

After a few times, it sunk in a bit that the padded bras had made them seem bigger, but she kept letting me see her tits so I didn’t care.

We’ve been married for 5 years. She still lets me see em, and it’s still awesome.

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u/FacelessMane 8d ago

I kid you not this question just made me realize my ex from 10 years ago wore a padded bra. Like... my brain recorded the memory that it was padded but it never processed this fact

That itself should be your answer.

PS: she had amazing boobs and they played a big hand in making me a fan of small boobs ever since

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u/mekosaurio 8d ago

In those moments my thoughs are more like "yeah!! Its happening, im gonna fuck!!", "I hope my dick performs ok this time", "hope my size is enough"

I can assure you that girls dont have the monopoly on insecurities, actually guys feel more pressure

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u/Amyjane1203 8d ago

I can assure you that girls dont have the monopoly on insecurities, actually guys feel more pressure

I never really thought about the specific concerns you mentioned from the male perspective...in my mind, by the time we get to that point, the guy must be feeling pretty confident.

Am I feeling 100% confident in that same moment? No. So....why did I assume yall are? Part of me wants to say I assumed bc the men often initiate, but I know that's a whole other topic.

This whole comment section here has been one big TIL, but your comment might be the best.

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u/luthigosa 7d ago

Initiation is truly terrifying even though past girlfriends have told me that I appear very confident.

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u/ntengineer 8d ago

I doubt I would notice, because once the shirt came off, I would be like BOOOOBBBBIIIEEEESSSS!!!!

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u/perryurban 8d ago

I prefer them small. "Why you hiding them?"

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u/Theusernamecheckguy 8d ago

It might come up during snacks or lunch and tv at some point. Like, if she does it to make herself feel sexy or to make me happy. And then a little “Well it’s working”, or “I like you without a top on”, depending on how that goes.

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u/BoyThatsJustCraZ 8d ago

Boobs are boobs. I'd tell her she doesn't need a padded bra to look amazing

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u/chaigulper 8d ago

For me personally, it's not about how I look at all. I used to wear non-padded bras until 6 years ago and really struggled with finding one that would fit nicely and not show my nipples. Then I tried padded bras and what can I say, I'm never going back to non-padded.

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u/cakolin 8d ago

Exactly. I have big boobs and even large cup sizes are sold with padding. It helps with support/structure and helps hide the nip nips. Double win.

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u/RamadanShamz 8d ago

Same way I would if her titties were even bigger without the bra.

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u/blatantlytrolling 8d ago

Happy she was nude

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u/shitbox98owner 8d ago

The first thing that comes to mind when i see breasts on a woman is "those are boobs, i like boobs".

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u/TheIrishDragon 8d ago

I'm seeing boobs so I wouldn't care

Boobs are boobs

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u/bouncy_cashewnut 8d ago

I see booba, i go awooga

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u/MikeHuntIsLovely 8d ago

id feel with both hands

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u/keithwink 8d ago

With both hands

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u/Due_Chain 8d ago

Id feel some boobs tbh

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u/chamberx2 Male 8d ago

Don't care. Still saw boobs.

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u/WildAndFreeee 8d ago

Hard. I can guarantee that.

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u/Slow-Down_Turbo 8d ago edited 8d ago

It's actually happened before and remembering back..... I remember noticing, then feeling 5% deceived but 95% amused at how much a difference a bra can make, but a nanosecond later I'm shoving my face in her chest.. So all in all, I really didn't care.

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u/Wonderful-Deal4403 8d ago

Omg yes, bras can make SUCH a difference. I spent $50 on a WonderBra and it legit took me up two whole cup sizes😳and looked sooo natural, no one would know it’s a bra… when I was on-line dating I deliberately wouldn’t wear it on the first date for fear he’d be disappointed later🙈nice to hear this perspective!

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u/funatical 8d ago

Are there tits involved? Then I'm good.

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u/scotiej Male 8d ago

I'd wonder why she felt the need to wear a padded bra. I like small breasts too.

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u/jarorags 8d ago

some times it's not an insecurity thing, sometimes its just a- I don't want my nipples exposed to the world through my tshirt- thing

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u/scotiej Male 8d ago

Good point.

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u/Cheap-Pound7001 8d ago

Da-dum-tsh

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u/momofboysanddogsetc 8d ago

I see what you did there

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u/MissIslay 8d ago

Yea, especially when you have one chronically cold nipple…

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u/DrZenRoot 8d ago

All breasts matter

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u/BleedingTeal Male 8d ago

Big or small, we love 'em all.

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u/GarnetSteel Female 8d ago

Also not all bras really give you the option. It’s either sheer and possibly unsupportive/has bold stitching/lacing that you can see through the short because it’s texture. Or hiding nipples. After a certain point extremely padded bras are straight up uncomfortable.

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u/suthrnboi 8d ago

You found a woman who was comfortable enough with you to show you her boobies, don't fuck it up and be self centered on what she wears. We all project some sort of projection of who we want to be but hopefully find someone you can be open with, even if they're smaller than you both thought.

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u/clixibuxi 8d ago

I’d be honored that she is getting nakey in front of me which is what I believe to be an indicator of her wanting to have a sexual experience with me. This causes me to feel excited both emotionally and penisally.

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u/TheOldGamerGuy 8d ago

I would feel with my left hand and then with my right

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u/christianbrooks 8d ago

Safe of you to assume we still have use of our brain once we have a half naked woman in front of us.

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u/shonech Male 8d ago

Wouldn't care one bit

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u/DrZenRoot 8d ago

It would be awesome because I’m looking at her naked breasts.
Stop body shaming. She’s beautiful and she’s doing her best.

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